Queen's Park, the Ontario provincial legislature, is seen decorated for the holidays with lights, in Toronto, Friday, Nov. 21, 2025.
Despite potential arguments over politics, relationships, or social issues, most Canadians still prioritize holiday family gatherings, a recent online survey shows.
According to Leger’s latest poll, more than 70 per cent of Canadians view these events as important opportunities to connect with loved ones.
“Family gatherings are crucial moments for togetherness,” said Andrew Enns, Leger’s executive director. “Even amid potential debates, people want to be with relatives.”
Increased Caution at the Dinner Table
The survey revealed a growing caution in conversation. Over half of respondents (52 per cent) admitted they are more careful about what they say compared to previous years.
“You might expect family settings to foster respectful debate,” Enns said. “But people often avoid controversial topics to prevent conflict.”
Leger conducted the online poll with 1,500 Canadians during the Thanksgiving long weekend. Because it wasn’t a random sample, the results have no formal margin of error.
Hot Topics That Spark Arguments
Respondents identified the most contentious subjects during family dinners.
- Politics topped the list, with around 50 per cent saying it often causes disagreements.
- Money followed at 25 per cent.
- Immigration ranked third at 19 per cent.
Generational differences were evident. Gen Z and millennials cited debates on gender identity, parenting styles, social media, cancel culture, and dating as more likely to spark disputes. Meanwhile, 22 per cent of Canadians aged 55 and older found conversations on religion or the state of the world more controversial.
How Canadians Handle Conflict
When arguments arise, people handle disagreements differently:
- 36 per cent will speak their mind, even if it fuels conflict.
- 24 per cent prefer to change the topic when tensions escalate.
- Among them, 28 per cent are women and 20 per cent are men, suggesting men are more likely to pursue contentious subjects.
Comparing Canadian and American Holiday Gatherings
Leger also surveyed 1,500 Americans. Results were similar:
- 72 per cent valued family gatherings.
- Politics and money ranked as the most debated topics.
- The third topic in the U.S. was the general state of the world, compared with immigration in Canada.
Enns noted, “Debates in Canada may not feel as intense as in the U.S., but the patterns are largely similar.”
History of Family Debates
Enns observed that family disagreements are nothing new. Previous generations debated major issues like Vietnam War and Canada’s involvement in Afghanistan.
“The beauty of family gatherings is that you can have strong differences while still being together,” Enns said.
Tips for Avoiding Holiday Conflicts
Leger suggests Canadians can preempt tension by warning relatives about sensitive topics beforehand.
Even small disagreements over holiday spending or greetings like “Merry Christmas” versus “Happy Holidays” can trigger debates. Enns said, “These discussions are normal, and most families experience them.”
Preparing for the Holidays
While Canadians may dread some discussions, most remain committed to sharing time with loved ones. Poll results show that the importance of family connection outweighs potential conflicts, even in a socially and politically charged environment.As families prepare for the season, awareness of trigger topics and clear communication can help make gatherings more enjoyable, Enns added.
